Deep Conversations Coaching is the brain baby of a need that I had to learn to meet. Growing up, I was always taught to let things go, forgive and forget, all amazing notions but I could never stop the voice in my head. I was expressive and found it very hard to move forward after a conflict.
I HAD TO TALK ABOUT IT.
To me, every problem or conflict that gets brushed under the rug is like a wound that is covered up and bandaged without properly cleaning it. It will grow and infect you from within and soon spread to other parts of your life.
"Trauma is not what happened to you. It is what happened inside you as a result of what happened to you."
When we don't talk about trauma, we store it within and build walls around us to prevent it happening again.
Through coaching, I found a space to voice my pain, tear it apart, analyse it and learn from it. I learned acceptance of myself and my story. I realized I don't need an apology or validation from those people who hurt me.
MY HEALING WAS MY CHOICE.
My deepest healing came from being able to create safety in my relationship and within my home. I needed a space where I felt accepted, to celebrate my small wins and to hold me up when I was drowning and for that I had to learn "The Art of Deep Conversations", conversations that spoke life, love and connection. At Deep Conversations Coaching, that is what I do today.
I help couples to listen with curiosity, understand with acceptance and speak with compassion.
A few years ago, I was blessed to co-author a book, SHE INSPIRES LEADERS, with some amazing women around the world. This book is written by women to inspire sisters to become leaders in their everyday lives.
It has stories of women from different walks, at different stages, handling different challenges in their lives. A must-read for all women.
"And one of His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find comfort in them. And He has placed between you compassion and mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who reflect."
Allah calls our marriage a miracle, a blessing, a space to find comfort and tranquillity. If your marriage has become a space of discomfort, arguments, resentment, distrust, toxic silence and hurt, it is a marriage that is not fulfilling its purpose.
A healthy marriage is built by two individuals choosing to be the best versions of themselves in the relationship and that starts with each one of YOU. Let's work together to create the change you wish to see in your marriage
Structured programs held in safe, supportive and intimate groups where privacy is prioritised
Connection from within
(women's program)
The Connected Couple
(couple's program)
COMING SOONPersonal stories from women and couples who have to transformed their relationships through Deep Conversations
Mumbai, India
"I found immense improvement from the first few weeks of the program. We did activities and workbooks that really made us connect within ourselves and know ourselves better…I would recommend this program to every woman out there to get know yourself better and connect from within in a way you've never done before."
Delhi, India
"Everything is starting to make sense, and I now have a much better understanding of my emotions. I've gained control over them and, in turn, understand myself better. My relationships with both myself and those around me have significantly improved."
Delhi, India
"I have been struggling with low self-esteem for many years which resulted in procrastination. Najiha Basheer's sessions helped me break through my negative self-belief and attitude. I experienced shifts in my feelings and thinking patterns."
Capturing the transformative moments where couples rediscover each other and individuals find their voice in relationships
Capturing real moments of connection and growth
Capturing real moments of connection and growth
Capturing real moments of connection and growth
Capturing real moments of connection and growth
I've tried everything. Nothing has worked.
How will this help?
I hear you. I see the effort you’ve put and the hopelessness you feel right now. You have tried talking, crying, getting angry, staying silent, doing everything they want, but nothing seems to work. You still feel disconnected. You feel like you are walking on eggshells, and you question yourself on where you went wrong. I understand you, because I have felt the same way.
"Indeed, Allah does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves." — Quran, Surah Ar-Ra'd (13:11)
The way you and your partner behave in marriage is just a series of habits and behaviours you picked up as a child from the marital relationships around you. You are either copying them or trying to actively avoid them but unconsciously end up repeating the same behaviours, especially when feeling emotional or triggered.
Building a peaceful marriage takes awareness, courage to unlearn past behaviours, commitment to relearn strategies that actually work, consistent effort, all with a bucketload of grace and compassion for yourself and your partner
Find answers to common questions about life coaching and how we can work together to create meaningful change in your life.
Life coaching focuses on your present and future goals, helping you create actionable plans to achieve them. While therapy often addresses past traumas and mental health issues, coaching is about moving forward with clarity and purpose. As a life coach, I help you identify obstacles, develop strategies, and maintain accountability to reach your fullest potential.
The coaching journey varies for each individual based on your goals and commitment level. Most clients see significant progress within 3-6 months of consistent sessions. Some prefer ongoing monthly check-ins for continued growth, while others work intensively for shorter periods. We'll discuss what timeline works best for your specific situation during our initial consultation.
Our first session is all about getting to know you and your aspirations. We'll explore your current situation, identify your core values, and clarify your goals. I'll explain my coaching approach and how we'll work together. You'll leave with clarity about your priorities and a sense of the supportive, judgment-free environment we'll create for your growth.
Yes! I offer both in-person and virtual coaching sessions to accommodate different preferences and schedules. Online sessions are conducted through secure video platforms and are just as effective as face-to-face meetings. Many clients appreciate the flexibility and comfort of coaching from their own space.
It's completely normal to have questions about whether coaching is the right fit. That's why I offer a complimentary discovery call where we can discuss your goals, my approach, and whether we're a good match. There's no pressure—just an opportunity to explore how coaching might support your growth and see if my style resonates with you.
Creating healthy boundaries is essential for a fulfilling life. I help you identify where boundaries are needed, develop strategies to communicate them effectively, and create systems that support sustainable balance. We'll work on prioritizing what truly matters to you and building routines that honor both your professional ambitions and personal well-being.
Growth happens in the space between our sessions! I provide you with practical tools, exercises, and action steps to implement. You might receive worksheets, journal prompts, or small challenges to keep you moving forward. I'm also available for brief check-ins via email if you need support or have questions as you work toward your goals.
Absolutely! Many of my clients work on improving their relationships—whether with partners, family, friends, or colleagues. We focus on communication skills, boundary setting, understanding your relationship patterns, and developing the confidence to create the connections you desire. Coaching helps you show up as your best self in all relationships.
Take the first step towards deeper connection and meaningful communication. Whether you're looking to strengthen your bond as a couple or develop your relationship skills individually, I'm here to guide you on this transformative journey.
Let's discuss how we can work together to strengthen your relationship
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